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But since then, he has been really shy and not sexual and he seems afraid of me or something. Please keep the rules of /r/dating_advice in mind while participating here. Report any rule-breaking behavior to the moderators using the report button. We rely on user reports to find rule-breaking behavior quickly. If he has low confidence and you have told him you want to take it slow it and he's respecting that then it's likely that he won't take any hints that you are ready for him to be more sexually forward with you. My reasons for wanting to take it slow are complex.
He has said several times that he thinks I am out of his league and why would I want someone like him... So anyways, will the sexual chemistry grow as we get to know eachother? I don't want him to be forever intimidated by me and I don't think it is fair to him to keep this going if I feel like I need something more.. When you are ready for that you might need to have a proper conversation with him about it and spell out your expectations. But I feel like it is the right thing for me..however, I also hate making sex a "thing".
Beginning to date someone can feel like an emotional roller coaster.
The highs of liking somebody, but the lows of waiting for him or her to text you back is the name of the game.
On top of that, he probably isn't very good at being flirty for a number of reasons (inexperience, trying not to be a creep, moral code he was raised with, etc).
All-in-all, he doesn't realize that he's actually sabotaging himself.
With every passing minute, you’re thinking, “Text me already! You think, “If I had a good time, so did he, right?But he treats me well and I enjoy our conversations. Sexual chemistry isn't going to grow when he is actively keeping a lid on it.thanks for your input.. It's like a "thing" when you do or when you don't too.So I know eventually we will just need to do it..maybe planning a date to do it makes more sense?And sometimes it seems like he isn't attracted to me.Well he doesn't drink every time but when he does, he gets relaxed and tells me a lot about himself.. This could be a good thing because most guys try to rush in to my pants.