Dating many men at once
We give away our exclusivity before a man gives us the commitment we want.
When we close off our options with other men too soon, we actually sabotage our ability to get the commitment and intimacy we so desire.
Here’s why: NO MORE NEEDY VIBE THAT PUSHES MEN AWAY When you have all your hopes and dreams wrapped up in any one guy, it’s natural to fear losing him…and losing you.
You become obsessed with every phone call, jump when he says jump, and change from the attractive, interesting woman who intrigued him into someone needy and clingy he feels pressured to check in with.
I like that the two men are opposites and I got on so well with both of them. My second dates were both fantastic and that’s when I realised I needed to make a decision if there was going to be a third date – which man did I want to spend most of my time with?
It’s the biggest mistake women make, and you need to stop it – right now!
– and start dating many men at the same time until you have the commitment you want from the man who is right for you.
HELPING YOU CHOOSE A PARTNER WISELY It’s hard to see the red flags when there is only one guy on the horizon.
If you think he’s your only hope, you tend to gloss over things about him that indicate he’s a good match.