Best way to keep up to date is liking its Facebook page. – LGBT classes – salsa, ballroom dancing, cooking, drawing… I had Brenda for 2 full days before I got tired of not finding butches in my age range and zip code LOL – Facebook groups… I joined most of the butch-femme groups, left, and now pledge the 5th.
– Butch/Femme and (gag) queer events and ongoing series like Boxers Off: NYC Butch Burlesque or Queer Memoir. check your local LGBT Center’s boards or Craigslist. I wouldn’t waste any of my romantic/sexy/nawty time with anyone I met on Facebook.
– Museums – discretely follow her around 2 or 3 rooms to make sure she is alone and then hit her with a 2×4 to make sure she “sees” you.
Clearly, you want a woman who truly treasures and values that dynamic.
Here are a few options for Tri-State area femmes (and if you are somewhere else you can still take what fits you): – Butch Femme Society meetings – the Butch Femme Society open monthly meetings are held on the third Wednesday of each month at pm at the LGBT Center (208 West 13th Street). Some of my friends have gone out on great dates with butches they have met there.
– NYC Butch Femme Outings – the location and date changes from month to month. – i Phone and android apps like Brenda, Kik, and whatever young kids are using these days.
As any Buddhist will tell you, “Expectations lead to suffering.” Are you meeting the right kind of Femmes?
The Butch-Femme dynamic is something very powerful and dear to many women’s hearts.